Love Your Man if You Can...
“No man is worth tears, but the one who is, will never make you cry.”
“Being alone is scary, but not as scary as feeling alone in a relationship.”
“Dating is like shopping, if you don’t like the way it fits, just put it back on the rack and try something else on.”
It is time to cultivate your sexual Juju Beans...
It is time for you to look at men differently. Have fun experiencing all the exciting qualities that men have. If you meet a man and he doesn’t have what you desire, then you can move on to the next man. It doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy each person for what they do offer. If he isn’t the right person FOR YOU, you can still gain a friend, insight or a good business connection. It doesn’t always have to be black or white. Dating Men can be a rainbow. We all need to lighten up and have some fun. Why do so many of us spend so much time trying to mold a man into what we want him to be? That is very bizarre behavior, if you think about it. Can you imagine spending the rest of your life trying to make the other person do and act the way you want him to? The other person will only resent you and eventually leave. We should try to enjoy each man we come in contact with and appreciate who they are and what they have to offer. It is kind of like Chocolate. Some people like White, some like Dark and some like Milk chocolate.
You can have a little taste of each and decide which one you like best. You should always return the merchandise the way you left it or better. Women tend to choose a man they are attracted to and try to mold him into the person they want him to be. When he doesn’t respond or show up the way she intended him to, she becomes mad and hurt that he was the wrong flavor. We have so many choices. We should look at it as our own personal shopping spree. We get to try everything on and if we don’t like it, we get to put it back where we found it. We need to be kind with people and always leave a positive mark on a person’s heart. If a man hurts you, understand that he may have been going through something in his life that caused him to be unconscious of how he was treating you. The best option is to forgive and move on with your life. Something absolutely spectacular is just around the corner. If a man decides that you are not the right flavor for him, then so be it. You want to be with a man who loves your Flavor and can’t get enough of you. You both should mix just perfectly like a peanut Buster Parfait. There is something about Vanilla ice cream, chocolate, caramel and nuts. What a perfect combo! (Yum Yum)
Don’t waste your time trying to change anyone, just go out there and find your perfect flavor and let the magic happen.
Bottom line: A Man will not change himself for you; he might work extra hard to make you happy, but eventually what you see is what you get…. No Exceptions……
It makes much more sense to find a man that suits you just perfectly. Have some fun on the way down your own pleasure path. Everybody is different, so it is your choice. You get to pick what flavor, scent, style and taste you like.
LOVE YOUR MAN...
We need to turn on the light that somehow burned out along the way. This is the most exciting time in your life... It doesn’t matter what age you are or what you are doing with your life in this moment. If you are single, learn to appreciate men for their raw enthusiasm for women. If you are in a relationship, appreciate the man you are with for everything he can offer you. If he can’t give you everything you need, find passion in something you love to do. He will appreciate your creativity and respect you even more. You can have your mashed potatoes and gravy with a side of macaroni and cheese, please. We really do have the power to get anything we desire out of pure sexuality. If we truly appreciate our man and ask for what we really desire, we usually get it. Men want to please us, but they want to feel appreciated by women. They need to feel needed. No man can sustain an angry, bitter woman. Create your life the way you want it. Be true to yourself. You have to have fun with your man. If we could just press the RESET button and look at men and relationships differently. Enjoy your man for all he is. Let him please and pamper your little luscious booty.
There is nothing more desirable than a woman that appreciates and loves men. She knows she is sexy and hot and she enjoys all kinds of men.
Be happy... Forget all of this feeling sorry for your single self. You can have what you want if you truly know what that is. There are plenty of wonderful men willing to give you what you want and desire. IF YOUR ARE HAPPY AND HAVE FUN WITH THE EXPERIENCE, YOU WILL MEET MORE THAN THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS; YOU WILL MEET MANY MEN THAT CAN HELP GUIDE YOU TO YOUR DREAMS. PURE Delight, INSPIRATIONAL BLISS...
Appreciate your Man...
Love him if you can...
Have Fun...
Six Important facts to remember when you are loving your man (If you can):
- Express your interest in him and what he does...
A man can really fall in LOVE with a woman who appreciates and supports him in whatever he does, a woman who does not nag him about his choices, even if they don’t appeal to her. (Just find another interest for your fine self.) - Let a Man be A Man...
Women are attracted to men who resonate with male energy and strong virtue. Men who make them feel good about being a woman. Men want to feel like they are needed, that they are the “knight in shining armor.” Give them the golden opportunity to help you, pamper you, and adore you in every way. We all know that we are powerful women who can rule the world, but sometimes you've got to let the man be in charge. (That’s our little secret.) - Let Him be Masculine and you Feminine...
When a woman makes a man feel masculine, his body is filled with the fire of desire to get close. He wants to be with her, to take care of her, and in some magical way his life has more meaning. Make men feel like men just by the virtue of your own innate femininity. - Let a Man LOVE you...
This may seem like a simple concept; however it is usually part of the problem. We want to be treated like princesses, right? We need to let our pretective sheild down and let our fine selves embrace all the loving we can take. “You need him to lift you up to a higher ground, love you until you can’t come down”. Madonna (We love her) Men want to love us and they want us to need that love. Ladies let him LOVE YOU… - Respect your Man...
The bottom line is you have to respect your man's opinion on things. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with him, but always have respect for him. Again, he needs to feel like a man. He wants to be an important influence in your life. Listen to him and make him feel important. He will absolutely adore every little yummy part of who you are. Men want to be appreciated for what they are, not blamed for what they aren’t. When a man feels this way, he is coming home to something he has always deserved. (YOU) (Just make sure you are with a man that really deserves all of that amazing LOVE and treats you the same way). - Show Vulnerability and Sensuality...
You are the golden key to unlocking your own Hearts Desire and any man that you would like to come along for the ride. You have to unleash that sensual little goddess inside of you that has been dying to come to the surface for air. In order to do that, you must be vulnerable to love. You must feel every inch of desire well up inside of you and let it burst out of you with no resistance. Let go of old fears and really just be yourself. This is the natural form that we are supposed to be living in. We were made to be absolutely bootyliscious. This is all about you……..
“Ooh, Ooh, Ooh, I feel my temperature rising, help me, I’m flaming, I must be a hundred and nine. Burning, Burning, Burning and nothing can cool me. I just might turn into smoke, but I FEEL FINE. Cause your kisses lift me higher, like a sweet song of a choir and you light my morning sky with burning LOVE. I’m just a hunk, a hunk of burning LOVE. Just a hunk of burning LOVE..." -Elvis Presley/Burning Love